After a loved one crosses over it can feel as though you’re left with a gaping hole in your heart, you may feel lost and alone, angry and sad… while experiencing many other waves of emotions as you go through the mourning process and coming to terms with your loss.
You feel as if they are gone from your life forever, but the truth is, they are always with us.
We are all spirit having a human experience, so when our human form passes over our spirit continues to live on. It’s the same with animals too.
So it makes total sense that sometimes our passed loved ones will try to get messages across to us.
They may want to make contact to let you know that they’re okay, to give you help and guidance ,to comfort you in your grief, to give you a message, or for other reasons. It may be that they just want to check up on you from time to time over the years to see how you are doing.
They like to visit and acknowledge significant events such as birthdays, weddings, anniversaries, births, deaths, or even to warn us of a bad situations.
If you know what to look for, you’ll get the message they are trying to convey.
Spirit are often very eager to let you know they are part of your life and are with you when you least expect it. While many people can feel their passed loved ones watching over them, self-doubt can creep in and many tend to question whether or not what you experienced is actually a message from a passed loved one.
Spirit will provide us with many signs and will continue to try and get through in the hope that they will be recognised (some of these signs are listed below).
The signs will come in a variety of ways, and the key is keep your eye open for synchronicities and anything out of the ordinary.
These spontaneous and direct methods of communication can occur at any time, and anywhere. You can be fully awake, in a twilight state of dreaming and waking, or in a dream state.
All you need to connect with passed loved ones is the ability to be open and pay attention.
Here is a list of the 12 most common signs our loved ones give to us…
One of the most common ways for spirit to visit and communicate with us is through dreams. While sleeping your conscious mind has quietened and you have less resistance through your own thoughts, blockages and beliefs – you’re relaxed and open. Most people are comfortable seeing a loved one in a dream and of course they don’t want to scare you!
Spirit and angels will give you messages through words, symbols, and scenes that you can use as guidance for your life. Be aware that these messages can take time to decipher. A great place to start is with a dream journal, or at the very least have a pen and paper next to your bed so that you can write things down quickly either in the middle of the night if you’re woken by your dream, or first thing in the morning when you’re dream is relatively fresh in your mind.
If you are visited by someone in a dream, you will know as these dreams are quite different from regular dreaming and you may try talk yourself out of the fact that you had a ‘spirit visitation’ dream.
In spirit visitation dreams a deceased loved one often enters the dream, or is surrounded by some sort of light. In the dream, while they may talk to you or ask you to deliver messages, they will usually offer some sort of comfort that they are okay, everything is peaceful, and that they made it to the other side comfortably. Symbols in your dream are used to help you to interpret the dream. If it’s not clear to you what the message is, you may want to investigate some dream interpretation information to clarify further.
A dream that is a true visitation will be very peaceful and you will know within yourself that it is truly your loved one.
You will remember these types of dreams in detail for many years to come.
If your dream is frightening or makes you feel bad, this is not a spirit visitation dream. This is your subconscious, worries and concerns coming through. Our loved ones are always loving and positive, much the same as they were when living, but more so now that they are in the spirit world as now they have no worries or concerns, have or are going through healing, and will shine with love.
If for some reason you do feel a negative spirit coming through for whatever reason, all you need to do is ask Archangel Michael to protect you and for him to only allow spirit of the light to come through with positive messages for you.
Number patterns are also very commonly shown to us by spirit and Angels. You will see the same numbers over and over until you get the message! Spirit love to give numbers that hold some significance such as birth dates, anniversaries, and other significant event dates.
You may relate a number sequence to a date a particular person had passed – they are letting YOU know they are with you!
Repeating numbers such as 111,222, 333, etc. seen on clocks, phone numbers or other familiar places, could also have some significance to a passed loved one (like time of death for example). This is also a very common way to receive messages from the Angels with each number having a significant meaning of guidance for you based on timeless and accurate numerology.
Signs Through Animals
Butterflies, Birds, Dragonflys, Ladybugs…
Spirits can use their energy to be with us through the animal world for a very short amount of time. If an animal does something unusual like land in front of you or on you, stare at you through a window or peck at the window, squawk at you as if they’re trying to speak to you – any of these could be a sign that your loved one is around you.
Signs Through Small Objects
It is very common for spirit to use objects like feathers, coins, stones, and other small objects that may have some significance to either you or the spirit. Spirit like to place things in your path to let you know they are around.
If you find different things just showing up randomly, you may like to do some research on “apports” (gifts from spirit), where objects appear from nowhere.
Some spirits move objects to get your attention. Does the same photograph keep falling? Is the same thing always being ‘misplaced’ or ‘lost’ while in your possession?
Spirits LOVE to play with electricity. After all… we are ALL energy! Energy runs through ALL things! It is actually quite common for passed loved ones to learn how use these things to get your attention! This is a more advanced skill, so not all spirits are able to do this. They love to manipulate appliances like flickering lights, turning the television and radio on and off, making things beep or ring for no apparent reason and childrens' toys can start to play and move around. Ever heard the doorbell ring, you go to answer to find no-one is there (and it isn’t Halloween!).
If unusual things like this happen to you, it might be that someone is trying to tell you something (besides the obvious message of getting your appliances checked too of course!)
Some signs can be a little more intense than others which can tend to scare people. If you do get scared by any of these occurrences, all you need to do is talk to them and ask them to tone it down or show you something different – choose another sign to use!
Buzzing in your Ear
Have you ever had a high pitch noise in one or both of your ears that has just come out of nowhere? And no, I don’t mean the after effects of a big night out at a rock concert either. It is, quite different to that. I will point out here that there is a medical condition that is described similar to this and perhaps something you may want to get checked too. However, we are talking on a spirit level. What does this mean?
Spirits run at a much higher frequency than we do (hence the high pitched noise in our ears).
You can ask them to turn it down (or up). This sign can mean that you are “downloading” information in to your subconscious, it can be a sign telling you to listen to what they are saying. How do you know what they are saying… well… you can get it in several ways. Look up the “Clair’s” (clairaudience, clairvoyance, etc etc). So you can see, feel, hear or know what their messages are – unfortunately they don’t send out a memo typed out neatly for us to understand. Perhaps we can work on that with them in future.
Synchronicity is experiencing two or more events that are unlikely to occur together by chance, yet are experienced by occurring together in a meaningful way. Spirit can arrange ‘signs’ for you in this way. For example, maybe you’ve heard the same name pop up several times in one day? Perhaps you have been recommended to read the same book by several different people. There’s so many things that contribute to synchronicity and I’m sure you’ve already experienced it several times before. These are signs you’re on to something, pay attention. Receiving a symbolic message, sign, coincidence or synchronicity – Synchronicities can be a sign of confirmation, of thoughts – of messages a sign spirits are watching over you! There’s also a few other reasons dependant on our own levels of vibration (what’s happening for us in our lives, relationships etc.).
We can often tell our passed loved ones are around us by smells like perfume, cigar/cigarette smoke, particular flowers, cooking, or any other familiar smell they had. There is no logical explanation as to why the smell is there, others can’t smell it (sometimes they can), but it seemingly comes from nowhere. For example if you smell cigar smoke, and no one is smoking near you, but you can associate it with, or it makes you think of, your passed grandfather use to smoke cigars – chances are it’s him letting you know he’s around!
Think of the familiar smells you associate with your loved one.
If it’s not logical to smell cigar smoke when no-one smokes in your house and you’re quietly sitting watching TV, it could be a sign!
Songs are a great way for spirit to trigger memories for you. Spirits love to play songs to deliver messages to you. Sometimes you will wake up with a random song in your head and you have no idea why you’re thinking of it (not so random really). Or perhaps you turn on the radio and you hear a song that instantly reminds you of a passed loved one.
Aside from letting you know they’re around, pay close attention to the lyrics, there could be a message in it for you.
Often, song signs are played several different times in several different places, but not always. We know they are around when their favourite song come on at the right time with the exact words we need to hear.
Sensing Their Presence
You might notice a shift when spirits are around you.
It could be a change in energy, a feeling, suddenly experiencing a difference in temperature, brush of cold air when all doors and windows are closed or actual movement.
Perhaps you might feel like someone is sitting next to you.
A light brush of your hair, holding your hand, a gentle touch, a hug.
It can sometimes feel as if you’ve just walked through a spider web, but there is nothing there. That old saying you may or may not have heard of (when you get a chill or a sudden shiver/shudder) – “that felt like someone just walked over my grave”.
It has been said by some that feeling their touch is most common in the days directly following a loved one’s passing.
However, some spirits do continue to visit long after they’ve passed, and let you know by using the ability of touch.
Usually you’ll feel a sense of love and peacefulness for no reason. It can happen at the most unsuspecting times, and there’s no logical explanation for such sudden bliss. There’s nothing to fear, say hello and thank them for visiting!
Spirit messages can come to us by the way of ‘thoughts’. Pay attention to any thoughts that just ‘pops’ into your head. For example, you see a bird that is very uncommon in your area and you immediately remember how much your grandmother loved this particular bird? Maybe she sent you this to remind you of her and to let you know she’s thinking of you and that she is with you.
You might be thinking of your next holiday and suddenly you get an inspiration to go to a certain place, perhaps it’s somewhere your loved one has been before and they’re making a suggestion for you? Your loved ones are just a thought away.
These are just some of the most common ways spirit communicates with us. If you haven’t experienced any of these signs, it may just be that you haven’t recognised them, or you could simply ask your loved ones to give you a sign to let you know they are okay. It may be that you don’t sense them around because they are doing fine, or perhaps they’re spending a bit of time helping others too. Ask them to come to you as you sleep, in your dreams, and to wake you up after the dream.
The more you are aware of the messages you are given, the more time they will spend with you. Be patient and persistent.
Remember, when spirit pass over they leave all of their earthly worries and ailments behind. They go in to healing and reflect back on their learnings from their human experience. They want you to remember their whole life and not just the time immediately before their passing. There are many wonderful memories before that they are focused on and treasure.
They really are okay and want you to be too!
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